Tuesday, April 21, 2009

IS AGE JUST A # WHEN YOU'RE DATING OR IN A RELATIONSHIP? U TELL ME.

The Blonde Bombshell is back and asking you all IS AGE JUST A NUMBER WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO DATE OR HAVE A RELATIONSHIP? U TELL ME.
Why do older men go for younger women? I say to regain part if their youth. Why do older women go for younger guys, same thing. Or maybe the married guys aren't getting what they need at home. Being honest, if you are in your 20's would you date a 40 year old? or vise versa,
as for me I prefer older men for my own reasons, maturity is important to me. Does a 20 year old guy look to be some older woman's cabana boy? or does a 50 year old guy choose to be a young girls sugar daddy? What about the WHAT IF'S?
Do younger women go for older guys for security, without loving them? I could go on forever about age, but I want to hear your stories.
My outlook is if two people are in love, who cares about age, maybe the parents? some dad having a son-in-law his age.
I say to all, the hell with age,(over 21 of course), but whatever age a person is if you love them the age doesn't matter.
A friend sent me an amazing story , which I will let her tell you in my blog. I am 34, and yes have had much older men ask me out, and yes I went. I also had guys my age ask me out, and said no thank you. I think when a male or female get to the age of 40, they have made all their mistakes, got that first marriage out of the way, raised their kids, or almost, had that threesome they always wanted, did the club scene, We all hopefully all get to that point by the time we hit our 40's.
Would you marry an older man/woman for their material things? What are your thoughts on this?
It's similar to would you date a heavy person, or a bald person, so bring it on, am ready for your stories.
THE BLONDE BOMBSHELL

IS AGE JUST A # WHEN YOU'RE DATING OR IN A RELATIONSHIP? U TELL ME.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

TO MEET OR NOT TO MEET-safe or sorry?

The Blonde Bombshell is back, and missed you all. As you see from the title, the subject is TO MEET OR NOT TO MEET someone you talk to online. Is it safe? You tell me. The stories i've heard from friends and read in the paper tell me no. My concerns are, did the guy send the real picture or no, (women also), when you meet a person you've talked to what if he isn't at all what his/her picture lools like? Do you run, pretend it's ok they lied to you? There is so much to find out before you take that step to meet a stranger from online, be it male or female.
The last story I read was a woman that agreed to meet a guy she met online, she set him up to be beat up and robbed, so it happens to guys as well as us women. I talked to a guy for a while on the phone, I was ready to finally meet him, when he called and asked me to borrow 5 thousand, for his rent, child support, etc. Of course that turned me right off, and no, I didn't meet him.
Would love to hear your story , was your meeting good or bad? I also have guys ask me to marry them , this is guys i've never met face to face.
There are surprises if you date off of aol. but there are set backs also, so i've learned, from dating a guy I met at the gym, or when I was out dancing, even rock climbing.
So how do we choose guys and girls who we date, I was told online guys are looking for one nighters, is that true guys? I was also told by a male friend that he met a girl, and she stole his credit cards, so he said never again .
The truth being this blonde bombshell will think twice about where , when, and who she dates, and how we meet. Maybe someday the right guy (which I thought I found), but he disappeared,
but maybe someday be it aol, or at the lounge or gym, the right guy will make me feel safe enough to have lunch with him no matter how we meet.
Let me know your zingers, your good meets, and your bad meets from the computer you sit at every day.
The blonde bombshell