This article hits close to home, since i'm a natural blonde.. This is not only for gentlemen but for all men plus women. Why does a woman's hair color make any difference? My first experience- was dating two CEO's about 4 years ago, I asked both what they saw in me. One said since I was blonde, I stood out,(I disagreed). The second CEO said it made him look good having a blonde on his arm.(disagreed on that also).
A woman should NOT be judged by the color or her hair, but by her personality, honesty,and values. It's very upsetting knowing i'm being asked out just because i'm blonde.I am confident enough in myself to say that yesterday I saw a beautiful redheaded woman who told me she was dying her hair blonde like mine. Another thing, when an overweight woman loses weight,she right away dyes her hair blonde. I asked one woman why (since she had beautiful brown hair). She stated now that she had the body of a blonde, she was dying her hair to match her new image.
This is bull. First off guys, date a woman for who she is, not the color of her hair, and ladies you don't have to be blonde just to get a date.
I call this the (Marylin M.syndrom). Wake up guys, us girls come in all shapes/sizes and hair colors. Plus ladies don't change your hair color just to get a man. Date another for who they are inside,not their hair color. I've known some blondes that have no character, are beach bunnies, or just plain snobs because of the color of their hair. Plus guys date the girl that puts butterflies in your stomach (hair color optional).
Tell me what you think of my new article since it effects both men and women. I will post whatever you send,good or bad, TELL ME YOU'R THOUGHTS ON THIS ARTICLE.
THE BLONDE BOMBSHELL
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I've dated blondes, brunettes and a redhead....ah, the redhead. Hmmm...
I've always treated women I date with the utmost respect. Each is an individual, unto herself and deserves nothing less. No comparisons, stereotypes or prejudgments can ever be fairly made if a relationship is going to succeed.
I agree that with some people, there certainly is a "Marilyn Syndrome" - it has to do with exactly that persona. An idealism of the 1950's-1970's generation, it's all been falsely perpetuated by popular film titles such as "Blondes Have More Fun" and Gentlemen Prefer Blondes". It intrigues me how some men flock to and even relish the thought of dating a blonde woman as being something more glamorous or envied by their peers.
I, myself, have to admit, there is one particular blonde that I'm currently very interested in. Not because she happens to be blonde, but more because I've come to know more about the person that she is.
Over the time since I first encountered this enchantress, she's shared with me her thoughts, her feelings and her emotional attachment to those who are important to her.
To that, I attribute my undaunted respect and pledge to her my humble commitment...I'm pretty sure she knows this.
If she'll have me as hers, I would be there for her, with her and for us...always and forever.
Yo, dats wack
Broadway Joe said it like dis
"Brunetes are fine, redheds are great, but something 'bout a blonde filly...I like my girls blonde and my Johnnie Walker red"
das wut Im talkin 'bout
DJam
Have been following all your blogs. I only date blondes and/or models, BUT if they don't have a personality,or are rude and dishonest it's a one date deal. Who doesn't like a blonde on his arm? Tho she has to be special in not only looks, but being who she is. Love the new blog BOMBSHELL
Mitch
I agree with you BOMBSHELL.I wouldn't care what color hair a woman has,if I like her,and she is an honest woman, I am dating her. There's more to a woman then her hair, I have a feeling you already know that tho BOMBSHELL.Am sure you had your share of blonde jokes.
Jonathon
It doesn't matter to me what color a females hair color is. All colors go with my bald look ;-)
If there honest and a beauty on the inside, then all is ok.
Cory
Hi, I wrote to you about your chatroom blog. I'm the overweight woman everyone in the room makes fun of.
I have been hitting the gym, watching my diet, exercising at home when I can. Since that blog, have lost 10 lbs already. I want to thank you for caring to write about it.
If I get thinner, and I hope to, will take the advice you posted for me, and leave my hair brown.
Now I need a blog concerning my sex life, and I know you are the one to write it. If you can write a blog on how women are equal to men in the sexual world I would appreciate it. Plus a few pointers this way would help.Thank you Bombshell, it's because I read your blog that I took a good look at myself.
Helen
Found this blog on Craig's List. Come on guys, we all want a hot blonde on our arm when we hit the clubs. Don't pretend you don't.Even at the casinos, a blonde next with a blow on the dice to us is good luck.
Johnny Aces
p.s. ever hit Vegas BOMBSHELL?
kAm also a blonde woman. But am so tired of the jokes. They don't have them for redheads,Yea Bombshell, you know we have more fun.By the way, great blogs, now tell me how to handle the guys that call us blondes HOTTIES.
Jen
I consider myself a good looking woman, yet my fiancee left me for a blonde.When I asked him why, he said blondes get noticed more on the dancefloor. No offense to you blonde girls, but screw him.
Linda
I am so tired of hearing about policics,plus all the promises on the blogs.
Came across your blog and how refreshing,NO POLITICS, NO PROMISES.Just articles about real life. If you were running for President, I damn well would vote for you.
Vinny
From the BLONDE BOMBSHELL
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU HELEN FROM ALL OF US. ALWAYS BE YOURSELF
BLONDE BOMBSHELL
Sorry, forgot to ask you. Do you write a column for any newspaper? If not, would you be interested in writing one? I like your work, seem's like others do also. The article on chatrooms was amazing, especially since you went through all that. You are good,no doubt about it Bombshell. Think about your own column.
Vinny
Just read your new article. A bunch of us go to Harvard and know (you know who). Now can you tell us how to handle the Yalie girls.They are a handful.
The Harvard Boys
Yo BOMBSHELL, who is Vinny? He seems to like you.Remember what you taught me (never talk to strangers).
Girls love Harvard Boys
Yea you know me. Since i'm divorcing that pig husband of mine. Would I look good as a blonde? Nah, you have enough to handle.Miss ya.
Janet
Great blog.I am a woman,and if a guy tries to date me because of my hair color, he isn't worth my time.
Since most blondes I know are ditzy,I find you to be intelligent and confident. Keep up the good work, since you speak for all us women, no matter what the hair color.
Karen
Pleaseeeeeeee, you know all us guys dream of a blonde on his arm, in his home, wherever we can get her.I find that a blonde holds her head higher, shoulders back, and knows she is a BABE. Well the good looking ones anyway. Don't know you, but from your words, YOU FIT THE BILL.
Gart
When I want to get to know a woman,I don't look her hair I look for the inner beauty of a woman. because if all that you look for is the outer beauty you'll miss so much of what a woman has to offer because beauty is only skin deep, it is all the other features that you will miss. so when it comes to Blondes, redheads, brunettes, if you love someone it should not matter what color her hair is as long as you love her.
i like brunettes, why i don't know? but have dated blondes, even married a blonde but stay clear of redheads. actually a womans hair color doesn't mean much since women today can change their hair color quickly and a man never knows if it is her true hair color or not so he has to rely on how she acts, how she carries herself and how she dresses. then from a distance he can check her out from head to toe but as she gets closer, i look at her face and her eyes to see if she has a nice smile and her eyes sparkle. hair color doesn't make a woman, it is her personality. as the saying goes, "blondes have more fun" but it all depends on the man they are with or with the girls that evening, it is all up to the woman on how much fun they can have and hair color doesn't matter. i prefer a woman who is smart, independent to a point but still room for a mate, not afraid to go for something she wants and enjoys life and can take the good with the bad, lifes everydays struggles
-----MAVERICK-----
Hi Bombshell,
I am a male from Macon,Georgia. Hi ma'am. Found your blog on Craigs List.You sure do know how to tell it like it is, I admire your confidence.I'm looking for "A WOMAN WITH HER OWN MIND", and a blonde to boot.
But on a serious note here, you write some great blogs. Am writing you to thank you for not talking politics, (had enough of that).I tip my hat to you BOMBSHELL.
Edward
FACT
BABYDOLL
FACT
and i'm no gentleman.
Jersey Jack
Hi Blonde,
Caught my boyfriend reading your blog. He asked me to read it, since he keeps asking me to dye my hair blonde. I almost did until I read your blog. I know he loves me, but he keeps looking at every blonde that goes by.
I like my hair just the way it is, but want to please him. He reads your blogs, so if you can comment on this, it would be much appreciated. So should I dye my hair to please him (I do love him), or go with my original color, which is brunette, and I consider myself a good looking woman. Maybe a comment from you will wake him up.
Thank you.
Liz
To Liz & her man.
Thank you for reading my blog.Some guys may think so, but it's not that big a deal being blonde.
To your man:don't try to change her, just love her.
To Liz, be just who you are, a beautiful brunette. He loves you, so he will get over it.
By the way, start worrying when he stops looking, just no touching.
BOMBSHELL
To Liz and her boyfriend. Thank you for reading my blog. Most guys think so, but it's not big a deal being blonde.
To your man: Don't try to change her, just love her for who she is.
To Liz: Just be who you are, it's who he fell in love with. By the way Liz, start worrying when he stops looking and begins touching.
Good luck to both of you.
BOMBSHELL
This is a doozy Bomb.
I am a blonde guy. Where I live girls don't date guys that are blonde for some reason . So am dateless.
You are a female blonde, and you can have as many dates as you want.
But I know why girls won't date me. Do you know why guys want to date you? Your hair color, or you the person.
Jude
p.s. so whose worse off Bombshell?
Jude I have the answer to your problem. Shave your head, bald is in. The girls will love it.
BLONDE BOMBSHELL
p.s. let me know if you agree.
Today we will elect the next President of the United States. The result will have great consequences for our nation.
This election offers a choice between two men with dramatically different visions of the future. We all have strong feelings about our decision. But I feel even more strongly that all Americans, regardless of political preference, have a stake in the outcome, our future and we should all vote in this critical election.
This is likely to be a close election. Your vote matters. Please use it and make a difference.
I did post the article on today's voting. But I never interfere in others preferences concerning politics. I try to keep my articles lite and non invasive, so I will not get into the political ring with you.
BOMBSHELL
Hi, I wrote you yesterday. Read your reply. Since I didn't have that much hair to begin with, I had my head shaved today.
You were right, it really looks cool. This one woman I asked out last year was at the market. She tells me how cool I look lately. haha. Thanks BOMBSHELL
Jude
Hi Blonde...
Another great article. As you know, I fell for a woman that put butterflies in my stomach....and wonderful thoughts in my head.
I fell for her, not because of her looks, but because of the woman she is....strong, independent, loving, humble, caring, passionate about life and love. And because she's a family oriented woman with a good heart and a beautiful smile.
Yes, she happens to be blonde...and tan...and lovely. I think you might even know her.
Yep, there's only one woman I dream about...
RSP
Redhead Research
Is it true that blondes have more fun? Well, that depends on what your idea of fun is.
Qualified researcher, Dr. Slaphappy (funded by Gimp Gumbo) said his new study documented the sex lives of hundreds of women and compared them by hair color, according to the Daily Herald.
Redheads have more sex than women of any other hair color, according to new research..
Dr. Slaphappy said that the sex lives of redheaded women were not only more active than women with other colors of hair, but that red heads have more sex more frequently than the average person.
"The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation,"
He also told the paper that women who dyed their hair red from another color were signaling they were looking for a partner.
"Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better," Dr. Slaphappy said to the Daily Herald.
Psychologist Prissy Redentwat (a redheaded lesbian) doesn't blame the redheaded women for having better sex lives. She thinks it just may be the way they are perceived.
"Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead, he will think he is dealing with a woman who won't mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex," she said.
No chimpanzees were hurt in this research although Dr.Slaphappy was manually circumcised by two blonds, one brunette, and a crap load of grey haired women: Prissy Redentwat has since dyed her hair blonde and only dates redheads.
Redhead Research
Is it true that blondes have more fun? Well, that depends on what your idea of fun is.
Qualified researcher, Dr. Slaphappy (funded by Gimp Gumbo) said his new study documented the sex lives of hundreds of women and compared them by hair color, according to the Daily Herald.
Redheads have more sex than women of any other hair color, according to new research..
Dr. Slaphappy said that the sex lives of redheaded women were not only more active than women with other colors of hair, but that red heads have more sex more frequently than the average person.
"The research shows that the fiery redhead certainly lives up to her reputation,"
He also told the paper that women who dyed their hair red from another color were signaling they were looking for a partner.
"Even women in a fixed relationship are letting their partners know they are unhappy if they dye their hair red. They are saying that they are looking for something better," Dr. Slaphappy said to the Daily Herald.
Psychologist Prissy Redentwat (a redheaded lesbian) doesn't blame the redheaded women for having better sex lives. She thinks it just may be the way they are perceived.
"Red stands for passion and when a man sees a redhead, he will think he is dealing with a woman who won't mess around, and gets straight to the point when it comes to sex," she said.
No chimpanzees were hurt in this research although Dr.Slaphappy was manually circumcised by two blonds, one brunette, and a crap load of grey haired women: Prissy Redentwat has since dyed her hair blonde and only dates redheads.
I can honestly say I have never dated a woman because of her hair color. I date those woman that I can actually have a conversation with that does not degenerate to "duh" and that has happened with all women, with no reagrds to shape, size, hair color, finacial staus or anything else!
I prefer women which are independent. Hair color doesn't matter.
AHHH LEWIE, YOU ARE A DEAR FRIEND, STAY JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.
BLONDE BOMBSHELL
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