The Blonde Bombshell is back and asking you all IS AGE JUST A NUMBER WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO DATE OR HAVE A RELATIONSHIP? U TELL ME.
Why do older men go for younger women? I say to regain part if their youth. Why do older women go for younger guys, same thing. Or maybe the married guys aren't getting what they need at home. Being honest, if you are in your 20's would you date a 40 year old? or vise versa,
as for me I prefer older men for my own reasons, maturity is important to me. Does a 20 year old guy look to be some older woman's cabana boy? or does a 50 year old guy choose to be a young girls sugar daddy? What about the WHAT IF'S?
Do younger women go for older guys for security, without loving them? I could go on forever about age, but I want to hear your stories.
My outlook is if two people are in love, who cares about age, maybe the parents? some dad having a son-in-law his age.
I say to all, the hell with age,(over 21 of course), but whatever age a person is if you love them the age doesn't matter.
A friend sent me an amazing story , which I will let her tell you in my blog. I am 34, and yes have had much older men ask me out, and yes I went. I also had guys my age ask me out, and said no thank you. I think when a male or female get to the age of 40, they have made all their mistakes, got that first marriage out of the way, raised their kids, or almost, had that threesome they always wanted, did the club scene, We all hopefully all get to that point by the time we hit our 40's.
Would you marry an older man/woman for their material things? What are your thoughts on this?
It's similar to would you date a heavy person, or a bald person, so bring it on, am ready for your stories.
THE BLONDE BOMBSHELL
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
TO MEET OR NOT TO MEET-safe or sorry?
The Blonde Bombshell is back, and missed you all. As you see from the title, the subject is TO MEET OR NOT TO MEET someone you talk to online. Is it safe? You tell me. The stories i've heard from friends and read in the paper tell me no. My concerns are, did the guy send the real picture or no, (women also), when you meet a person you've talked to what if he isn't at all what his/her picture lools like? Do you run, pretend it's ok they lied to you? There is so much to find out before you take that step to meet a stranger from online, be it male or female.
The last story I read was a woman that agreed to meet a guy she met online, she set him up to be beat up and robbed, so it happens to guys as well as us women. I talked to a guy for a while on the phone, I was ready to finally meet him, when he called and asked me to borrow 5 thousand, for his rent, child support, etc. Of course that turned me right off, and no, I didn't meet him.
Would love to hear your story , was your meeting good or bad? I also have guys ask me to marry them , this is guys i've never met face to face.
There are surprises if you date off of aol. but there are set backs also, so i've learned, from dating a guy I met at the gym, or when I was out dancing, even rock climbing.
So how do we choose guys and girls who we date, I was told online guys are looking for one nighters, is that true guys? I was also told by a male friend that he met a girl, and she stole his credit cards, so he said never again .
The truth being this blonde bombshell will think twice about where , when, and who she dates, and how we meet. Maybe someday the right guy (which I thought I found), but he disappeared,
but maybe someday be it aol, or at the lounge or gym, the right guy will make me feel safe enough to have lunch with him no matter how we meet.
Let me know your zingers, your good meets, and your bad meets from the computer you sit at every day.
The blonde bombshell
The last story I read was a woman that agreed to meet a guy she met online, she set him up to be beat up and robbed, so it happens to guys as well as us women. I talked to a guy for a while on the phone, I was ready to finally meet him, when he called and asked me to borrow 5 thousand, for his rent, child support, etc. Of course that turned me right off, and no, I didn't meet him.
Would love to hear your story , was your meeting good or bad? I also have guys ask me to marry them , this is guys i've never met face to face.
There are surprises if you date off of aol. but there are set backs also, so i've learned, from dating a guy I met at the gym, or when I was out dancing, even rock climbing.
So how do we choose guys and girls who we date, I was told online guys are looking for one nighters, is that true guys? I was also told by a male friend that he met a girl, and she stole his credit cards, so he said never again .
The truth being this blonde bombshell will think twice about where , when, and who she dates, and how we meet. Maybe someday the right guy (which I thought I found), but he disappeared,
but maybe someday be it aol, or at the lounge or gym, the right guy will make me feel safe enough to have lunch with him no matter how we meet.
Let me know your zingers, your good meets, and your bad meets from the computer you sit at every day.
The blonde bombshell
Thursday, October 30, 2008
"GENTLEMEN PREFER BLONDES" fact or myth
This article hits close to home, since i'm a natural blonde.. This is not only for gentlemen but for all men plus women. Why does a woman's hair color make any difference? My first experience- was dating two CEO's about 4 years ago, I asked both what they saw in me. One said since I was blonde, I stood out,(I disagreed). The second CEO said it made him look good having a blonde on his arm.(disagreed on that also).
A woman should NOT be judged by the color or her hair, but by her personality, honesty,and values. It's very upsetting knowing i'm being asked out just because i'm blonde.I am confident enough in myself to say that yesterday I saw a beautiful redheaded woman who told me she was dying her hair blonde like mine. Another thing, when an overweight woman loses weight,she right away dyes her hair blonde. I asked one woman why (since she had beautiful brown hair). She stated now that she had the body of a blonde, she was dying her hair to match her new image.
This is bull. First off guys, date a woman for who she is, not the color of her hair, and ladies you don't have to be blonde just to get a date.
I call this the (Marylin M.syndrom). Wake up guys, us girls come in all shapes/sizes and hair colors. Plus ladies don't change your hair color just to get a man. Date another for who they are inside,not their hair color. I've known some blondes that have no character, are beach bunnies, or just plain snobs because of the color of their hair. Plus guys date the girl that puts butterflies in your stomach (hair color optional).
Tell me what you think of my new article since it effects both men and women. I will post whatever you send,good or bad, TELL ME YOU'R THOUGHTS ON THIS ARTICLE.
THE BLONDE BOMBSHELL
A woman should NOT be judged by the color or her hair, but by her personality, honesty,and values. It's very upsetting knowing i'm being asked out just because i'm blonde.I am confident enough in myself to say that yesterday I saw a beautiful redheaded woman who told me she was dying her hair blonde like mine. Another thing, when an overweight woman loses weight,she right away dyes her hair blonde. I asked one woman why (since she had beautiful brown hair). She stated now that she had the body of a blonde, she was dying her hair to match her new image.
This is bull. First off guys, date a woman for who she is, not the color of her hair, and ladies you don't have to be blonde just to get a date.
I call this the (Marylin M.syndrom). Wake up guys, us girls come in all shapes/sizes and hair colors. Plus ladies don't change your hair color just to get a man. Date another for who they are inside,not their hair color. I've known some blondes that have no character, are beach bunnies, or just plain snobs because of the color of their hair. Plus guys date the girl that puts butterflies in your stomach (hair color optional).
Tell me what you think of my new article since it effects both men and women. I will post whatever you send,good or bad, TELL ME YOU'R THOUGHTS ON THIS ARTICLE.
THE BLONDE BOMBSHELL
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Let's Talk Chat Rooms
As we wake up, we struggle to get up so we can push the two buttons we know will start our day. The coffee pot and the computer. As we pour our coffee, we hear those famous words U GOT MAIL. We wonder if it's the guy we met in the chat room last night, so rush to the computer.
I did this for one year, for two hours every morning. I chose one chat room that was familiar to me.
The nice thing about chat rooms- you can make many great people that will be friends for life. Which I have, and they know who they are.
In the room, I was always myself, since we all know you can be anyone you want. There are lonely people there just looking to chat. That I liked.
Then when the guys come on to a woman, say me, or another, the anamosity begins. If the guy asks to meet you, and you say no. My experience was when I said no thank you, I got called names.
I had my identity stolen in a chat room. Tho the fraud unit of AOL handled that. I had my picture used under another person's profile, another fraud.
I also had a stalker for two years, he watched wherever I went, and came in and called me all kinds of things. That went on for 2 years.
I was also cloned, which was told is the greatest form of admiration, tho it's not. But the fraud unit handled that also.
Tell me, are chat rooms your life. Do you stay in them for 10 hours at a time. I have seen people in the morning, then I went to work, and that night there they were. Do these people actually have a life.
I read an article that chat room dates are safer then dating someone you meet outside. I totally disagree.
We all have at least one horror story about an incident in a chat room. Would love to hear yours.
I haven't been in a chat room for a year now. Tho I still have a few good friends I met in the room, and that is healthy. What isn't healthy is meeting a stranger before you really know who he/she is outside the room. I don't say chat rooms are bad, but with the experiences I had, i'm done with them.
Whoever you are, if you plan a meeting, make sure it's during the day and in a crowded area. Don't go through what I had to with stalkers, cloners, and liars.
So please tell me what you think? Do you say HORRAY when a fight breaks out? Is AOL chat rooms your lifeline? I want to know. We all have our own stories. And if you ever have a chatroom stalker, just write to the fraud unit at AOL. Or you can always just take the arrow and click yourself out of the room.
An ex chat room woman I am.
I did this for one year, for two hours every morning. I chose one chat room that was familiar to me.
The nice thing about chat rooms- you can make many great people that will be friends for life. Which I have, and they know who they are.
In the room, I was always myself, since we all know you can be anyone you want. There are lonely people there just looking to chat. That I liked.
Then when the guys come on to a woman, say me, or another, the anamosity begins. If the guy asks to meet you, and you say no. My experience was when I said no thank you, I got called names.
I had my identity stolen in a chat room. Tho the fraud unit of AOL handled that. I had my picture used under another person's profile, another fraud.
I also had a stalker for two years, he watched wherever I went, and came in and called me all kinds of things. That went on for 2 years.
I was also cloned, which was told is the greatest form of admiration, tho it's not. But the fraud unit handled that also.
Tell me, are chat rooms your life. Do you stay in them for 10 hours at a time. I have seen people in the morning, then I went to work, and that night there they were. Do these people actually have a life.
I read an article that chat room dates are safer then dating someone you meet outside. I totally disagree.
We all have at least one horror story about an incident in a chat room. Would love to hear yours.
I haven't been in a chat room for a year now. Tho I still have a few good friends I met in the room, and that is healthy. What isn't healthy is meeting a stranger before you really know who he/she is outside the room. I don't say chat rooms are bad, but with the experiences I had, i'm done with them.
Whoever you are, if you plan a meeting, make sure it's during the day and in a crowded area. Don't go through what I had to with stalkers, cloners, and liars.
So please tell me what you think? Do you say HORRAY when a fight breaks out? Is AOL chat rooms your lifeline? I want to know. We all have our own stories. And if you ever have a chatroom stalker, just write to the fraud unit at AOL. Or you can always just take the arrow and click yourself out of the room.
An ex chat room woman I am.
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Working Girls vs. The Working Girls
After reading a story in a Manhattan magazine about the city wanting to clean up 11th ave. , get rid of the working girls, etc, I thought a bit. Regardless of our careers , aren't we all working girls? Did you ever stop a working girl on 11th ave. and ask her why she does what she does? Maybe she's putting herself through college, or raising her children, and doesn't want to live off the city.
Even the girl with the corner office on Wall Street, is a working girl. My point to the city, is instead of trying to get these women off the streets, use the money to send them back to school. If you think you're any better then the girl working 11th avenue, because you have a college degree, forget it. You're still a working girl. Remember the movie WORKING GIRL?
I applaud the ladies on 11th ave, for putting theirselves through college with the assets they have, and would accept comments from anyone that reads this. After all is done ladies, we all have our careers to get us through life, so back off NYC, Instead of spending my hard earned taxes on getting rid of girls with a career you don't like, how about giving FDNY and NYPD a raise, since they are always there for us.
If anyone wants to comment, be my guest.
Even the girl with the corner office on Wall Street, is a working girl. My point to the city, is instead of trying to get these women off the streets, use the money to send them back to school. If you think you're any better then the girl working 11th avenue, because you have a college degree, forget it. You're still a working girl. Remember the movie WORKING GIRL?
I applaud the ladies on 11th ave, for putting theirselves through college with the assets they have, and would accept comments from anyone that reads this. After all is done ladies, we all have our careers to get us through life, so back off NYC, Instead of spending my hard earned taxes on getting rid of girls with a career you don't like, how about giving FDNY and NYPD a raise, since they are always there for us.
If anyone wants to comment, be my guest.
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